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I've been down one time, I've been down two times............

Level 1    
                                                                     
Does he believe in God?                                            
Is he saved?                                                               
Is he a virgin?                                                             
How many women has he dated?

Level 2 
                                                                        
What does he do for a living?
Was he raised by his parents or one parent?    
Observe how he treats his Mother; because the way he treats her is the way he will treat you

How mature is he? Example: If you ask a personal question such as:What are the two importantc characteristics he likes in a woman? Does he answer it sincerely and with confidence, or does he hesitate?


Level 3
                                                                       
Do you believe in God?                                             
Are you saved?                                                          
Are you a virgin?
What do you do for a living?

Level 4

What are you willing to change to improve you?
How confident are you of your love for yourself? (Not in a conceited way, but Godly love).
                                                                                   
How mature are you? Example: If he truly does have a flat tire on his way over to pick you up, how do you respond? Will you ask him can you help (even though you know you don’t know how to change a tire); or will you get an attitude and accuse him of lying to avoid the date?
                                                                                   
Are you willing to date him for at least 6 months or more to develop a friendship first?








All of these questions for both male and female are not, at all, off limit questions. We as Americans become enamored with external affairs and forget about the whole being of a person.  We also need to be mindful, as women, of our contribution to the relationship. It is very easy to look at someone and critique them; however, are you willing to be critiqued?


“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” He also told them a parable: “Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher. Luke 6:37-40 ESV




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